I used to think I had to accept my past for what it was. My choices, other’s choices, it did not matter because I believed that what has happened was unchangeable and I just simply had to move on and live with it. But what the Exchange has taught me that God has always been a part of my life even before I knew Him. It has taught me to believe in His process and to believe Him when he says, ‘in all things God works for the good of those who love him’ (Rom. 8:28). Now, when I come to a stuck place in my life, I no longer need to accept facts for face value. I have the blessed opportunity to ask, ‘God, what do You have to say about this?